Are You Tired of Being Single?
How to live happily after til death do you part
Are you tired of being single?
But more than weary are you wary of getting into another lousy (or worse) relationship especially when you barely got out of the last one with your sanity in tact?
If it’s true that “when you are in love, smoke gets in your eyes” and even more true that: “when you’re betrayed, hurt and outraged, smoke gets in your eyes, that is quickly followed by fire and then scorched earth retaliation and revenge, how can you increase the chances that your next relationship will not just survive, but that the two of your will live happily ever after?
A female friend of mine who was 57 and had never been married and kept bringing up her situation with a therapist. Her therapist said, “Would you rather be in a miserable marriage, as apparently 50+% of couples are, or just accept that being alone is not so bad and doesn’t mean you’re any less than people who are married?”
My friend was miffed, but highly creative and resourceful. What she did next was brilliant.
She made a list of all the qualities in a man that she would want to spend the rest of her life with and something she would keep top of mind so that she’d recognize such a guy if she came across him. This wasn’t rocket science. Her list included:
Then one day she met Mr. Right in that he had all the qualities on her list and by that time, so did she.
And the result… married, ten years and counting and well on their way to living happily ever after and til death do they part.
God bless,
Kendra Young
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But more than weary are you wary of getting into another lousy (or worse) relationship especially when you barely got out of the last one with your sanity in tact?
If it’s true that “when you are in love, smoke gets in your eyes” and even more true that: “when you’re betrayed, hurt and outraged, smoke gets in your eyes, that is quickly followed by fire and then scorched earth retaliation and revenge, how can you increase the chances that your next relationship will not just survive, but that the two of your will live happily ever after?
A female friend of mine who was 57 and had never been married and kept bringing up her situation with a therapist. Her therapist said, “Would you rather be in a miserable marriage, as apparently 50+% of couples are, or just accept that being alone is not so bad and doesn’t mean you’re any less than people who are married?”
My friend was miffed, but highly creative and resourceful. What she did next was brilliant.
She made a list of all the qualities in a man that she would want to spend the rest of her life with and something she would keep top of mind so that she’d recognize such a guy if she came across him. This wasn’t rocket science. Her list included:
- smart
- responsible
- attractive
- takes charge without being controlling
- relatively successful
- focuses on solutions vs. staying stuck in problems
- doesn’t complain
- doesn’t whine
- doesn’t indulge in self-pity
- doesn’t make excuses
- takes life but not himself too seriously
- great sense of humor
- takes care of himself health wise
- listens non-judgmentally
- gives people the benefit of the doubt
- is not a bore
- has some sense of self-awareness of how he comes off
- dedicated to self-improvement
- owns up to, takes full responsibility and faces consequences of his actions (and failure to act)
- admits and learns from mistakes
- has or had (if deceased) a good relationship with both parents
- being petty
- being b-tchy
- holding grudges
- being obsessed with her weight and/or need for plastic surgery
- alternatively being a slob at times
- being indecisive
- becoming and getting highly emotional and screaming when she was upset
- being gossipy
- overly chatty
- reverting to the past instead of moving forward...
Then one day she met Mr. Right in that he had all the qualities on her list and by that time, so did she.
And the result… married, ten years and counting and well on their way to living happily ever after and til death do they part.
God bless,
Kendra Young
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http://tenstepstoclarity.
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